tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post5362473212830004354..comments2023-12-23T17:35:56.401+05:30Comments on Words from my Heart and Head: Poisoned PleasantriesAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16310621835457260695noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-49718956963047553052015-02-07T02:10:30.803+05:302015-02-07T02:10:30.803+05:30That's why I hate meeting relatives, especiall...That's why I hate meeting relatives, especially in big gatherings. But then such comments find their way to our ears even with out meeting in person. How irritating it is when A phone call that we make turns into a questioning session where we find ourselves cornered. It is too much to take. Well, you have articulated it very well, Vidya. Vinithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13443178374019579137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-29752588865478569722015-02-06T00:27:07.581+05:302015-02-06T00:27:07.581+05:30People who gossip maliciously are unhappy in their...People who gossip maliciously are unhappy in their own lives and usually jealous, from my experience. I wouldn't waste any time on or give credence to these people. That said, if they were spreading destructive rumours about <i>me</i>, then I would confront them directly.Debbie D. https://www.blogger.com/profile/13153118405565035071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-28709039144952657822015-02-05T17:25:10.726+05:302015-02-05T17:25:10.726+05:30Thanks Arpita :)Thanks Arpita :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16310621835457260695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-77451684131714228092015-02-05T17:24:25.342+05:302015-02-05T17:24:25.342+05:30Definitely not easy, but a little maturity is call...Definitely not easy, but a little maturity is called for when dealing with another living being!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16310621835457260695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-46235263541104379252015-02-05T17:23:12.713+05:302015-02-05T17:23:12.713+05:30Yes, status, education etc seem to have nothing to...Yes, status, education etc seem to have nothing to do with this. Sad.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16310621835457260695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-39624524980877684752015-02-05T17:22:22.555+05:302015-02-05T17:22:22.555+05:30Yes especially if you are female, you tend to invi...Yes especially if you are female, you tend to invite a lot of judgement and weird commentsAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16310621835457260695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-59977752573075432922015-02-05T17:20:39.622+05:302015-02-05T17:20:39.622+05:30Sadly education doesn't seem to improve the si...Sadly education doesn't seem to improve the situation. A little sensitivity is all that is required :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16310621835457260695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-88107860942483677582015-02-05T17:19:29.000+05:302015-02-05T17:19:29.000+05:30Yes I feel it is their way of venting out their fr...Yes I feel it is their way of venting out their frustrations in life!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16310621835457260695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-74176996176046191952015-02-05T11:19:11.015+05:302015-02-05T11:19:11.015+05:30Well written Vidya, people like to gossip. I also ...Well written Vidya, people like to gossip. I also admit that some times I hate these types of gossips... Arpita Dashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14381081709782256644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-12907864835422921742015-02-05T10:06:55.694+05:302015-02-05T10:06:55.694+05:30Like you said, we all have opinions - maturity dem...Like you said, we all have opinions - maturity demands that we keep them to ourselves when they are going to cause hurt. At nearly 50, I've learned to cut people off or confront them. Not always easy though!Corinne Rodrigueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11142098428026084994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-49795690535678979212015-02-05T00:13:01.291+05:302015-02-05T00:13:01.291+05:30spit*spit*Ankita https://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-68824198899276835362015-02-05T00:12:35.076+05:302015-02-05T00:12:35.076+05:30i agree with every word. Many people, even those c...i agree with every word. Many people, even those coming from good backgrounds and with good education sit poison at every occasion, just like that and just for fun. I can understand the frustration one feels in the company of such idiots.Ankita https://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-24763188820477529662015-02-04T23:16:55.412+05:302015-02-04T23:16:55.412+05:30This post, I am sure, is going to be close to ever...This post, I am sure, is going to be close to everybody's heart. I identify completely with the baby planning issue. It becomes everyone else's business if you do not deliver a child within the first year. And personal experience says if you follow Mark Twain's words then you are publicly admonished as being too proud. Anamika Agnihotrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16153091934373383608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-37136878853783555002015-02-04T17:56:10.249+05:302015-02-04T17:56:10.249+05:30Well said vidya...nowadays people are more interes...Well said vidya...nowadays people are more interested in others life than theirs!!!..why s this,I don't know..is it bcz they are jobless or uneducated???? I don't think so..some people just find pleasure in others misery.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16123450119157125242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7004544185519187925.post-43368980691480319692015-02-04T15:51:05.317+05:302015-02-04T15:51:05.317+05:30People can be so cruel with casual comments, or by...People can be so cruel with casual comments, or by spreading malicious gossip. I don't know how to dampen this desire to create disharmony. I can only think that those in question must have very dreary lives.Francene Stanleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08298485336064691700noreply@blogger.com